Stuck in Spiritual Hibernation? Here’s How to Wake Up and Start Living Your Best Life Today It’s tempting to hibernate straight through winter’s dreary darkness or burrow in a cave of isolation and inactivity. Jill Palmquist hopes you won’t succumb to the doldrums. She urges you to get off the couch and make the rest of 2025 the year you finally start living. CHANHASSEN, MN (February 2025)—Welcome to the dreary bear cave of winter. If you’re like most of us, you’ve abandoned your resolutions, the cold has crept into your bones, and you’d rather burrow in and nap than do, well…anything else. There’s nothing wrong with getting some needed rest, says Jill Palmquist—but don’t let physical and spiritual hibernation become your default for the rest of 2025. “The days are dark and short now, but their brevity doesn’t compare to the finite nature of our existence,” says Palmquist, luxury lifestyle brand Life Time’s chief storyteller and author of In This Lifetime (Wise Ink, September 2024, ISBN: 978-1-63489-689-4, $105.00). “That Sunday afternoon nap is a nice indulgence, but don’t let it become a siren song. We aren’t really meant to hibernate—at least not for long. Our job is to wake up and do all the stuff we’ve been putting off. Because tomorrow doesn’t always come.” This understanding is her mantra and guiding star. In her new book, In This Lifetime, she writes, “A mysterious clock started the moment you entered the world, and you really have no idea when it will stop.” When we accept that life is breathtakingly short, says Palmquist, it shifts our mindset in a way that inspires us to live more authentically and joyfully. “It’s counterintuitive, but knowing that the clock is running out sets us free to finally start living,” says Palmquist. “It sparks an urgency to fuel our bodies with healthy, delicious foods; to go out for a walk even though it’s bitterly cold (that’s what heavy coats are for!); and to listen to the soft voice of our soul guiding us to make bold choices that help us live free of regrets.” In This Lifetime is on the surface a coffee table book. But look deeper, and it’s a distilled master class in waking up to the magic of simply being alive, with amazing bodies and curious minds that can do so many incredible things. The book is filled with breathtaking photographs, thought-provoking essays, proverbs, parables, conversation starters, and distilled snippets of life wisdom to help you move through life fully awake and present every day. “How will you move through life?” says Palmquist. “What will you do? Whom will you be? These questions aren’t abstract. If you answer them with your entire being, you can transform into someone new. You can fall in love with life—your life—before the clock runs out. The best part is you’ve got almost 11 more months to make 2025 the year it happens.” A few mind shifts to make and tidbits of truth to embrace as you awaken from your winter hibernation: Become a super magnet for positivity. “You attract what you think about,” says Palmquist. “Depending on what you fill your brain with, that could be good news or bad. I’m not saying to opt out of painful or negative aspects of life. But—and this is a big ‘but’—you must find ways to dwell mostly on the positive. You can do this by keeping your center full of love and excitement for each new day dawning. By doing what you can to deal with your own darkness while still searching each day for the light. And by reaching out to find common ground with others instead of judging or isolating from them.” Realize in one day there are one thousand opportunities to be kind. Palmquist wrote these words in her book, and they’re so true: Nothing gives you an energizing boost and that “feel-good” feeling quite like helping your fellow humans. This isn’t just something you do around the holidays or when you’re feeling generous. It’s a way of life. Start regularly volunteering your time at a shelter, a hospice center, or an organization that helps children. Commit to financially supporting a cause you believe in. Help care for an elderly neighbor or person in need in your community. Honor the genius of your body by taking care of it. In This Lifetime reminds us to look at your strong, beautiful legs, to appreciate the lungs (beauty in every breath), and simply to move (Movement is medicine. Movement is nature. Movement clears your head, inspires your heart, and creates health.). In other words, you’ll feel much better physically and fight off seasonal gloominess if you move your body all throughout the winter. Make at least a few fitness dates each week that you can look forward to and pencil them in on your weekly planner. If you write these appointments down and plan for them in advance, you are far more likely to stay on track. Be present for every tiny, soul-filled moment. To tune in to the wonder of life, you’ve got to be present. Don’t allow yourself to get distracted by spending hours doomscrolling on social media, says Palmquist. This can backfire by making you feel you’re missing out, or that your life is not as exciting as someone else’s. Every time you’re tempted to fall down a stressful online rabbit hole, connect with a friend; listen to some uplifting music; or take yourself to a coffee shop, a park, or anywhere you can engage with other people in person. You’ll discover that the real world is much nicer than the virtual one. Go outside. See how an unexpected encounter with a single patch of sunlight can change your life. Get outside every day (if only just for a few minutes) to enjoy the fresh air and interact with the natural world. Don’t just think, I’m grateful for this sunny day and move on. Take it further. Engage with the day!!!! Walk in the sunshine and feel how it dances on your skin. Look for and see where the lighted pathway wants to lead you. Allow yourself to experience awe. Moments of awe ground us in gratitude when life unfolds in ways we do not like. They remind us that maybe we are part of something far bigger than us that we don’t need to understand. Sit by a window and witness a storm roll in across the horizon. Attend a musical performance and immerse yourself in the sounds and vibrations. Sit outside at twilight and watch darkness descend over a lake of plate-glass water. Find your people. Make your friends. Love your tribe. Connecting with those we love amps up gratitude and gives us the social outlet we crave as humans. You make the call; instigate a get-together to break bread (or clink some wine glasses). In the midst of the laugher, look around—all these people were once strangers. What a miracle! “Here is your chance to figure out what you really want to do, to make time for what matters, to put new plans into action, and to feel alive like never before,” says Palmquist. “What are you waiting for? Time is ticking away, and the joy, wonder, and awe awaiting you is lifechanging. ‘Carpe the diem’ before that clock ticks off another day.” # # # About the Author:Jill Palmquist is a celebrated author, engaging speaker, and VP/chief storytelling officer at Life Time. Jill’s message isn’t about personal development or leadership in the traditional sense—it’s about living fully, joyfully, and as your true, unique self. Jill has spent over 20 years helping Life Time evolve into a beloved brand that has redefined the health club industry. Along the way, she’s been inspired by its millions of members and gathered insights, wisdom, and stories that illuminate what it means to live a healthy, happy life. Her book, aptly titled In This Lifetime, is a manifesto that will help you notice, appreciate, and enjoy the beauty of being alive, give a gentle nudge to the brevity…and offer simple suggestions for making the most of this whole human experience. About the Book:In This Lifetime (Wise Ink, September 2024, ISBN: 978-1-63489-689-4, $105.00) is available from Life Time, Inc. About Life Time:Life Time (NYSE: LTH) empowers people to live healthy, happy lives through its portfolio of more than 170 athletic country clubs across the United States and Canada. The health and wellness pioneer also delivers a range of healthy-way-of-life programs and information via its complimentary Life Time Digital app. The company’s healthy living, healthy aging, healthy entertainment communities and ecosystem serve people 90 days to 90+ years old and is supported by a team of more than 45,000 dedicated professionals. In addition to delivering the best programs and experiences through its clubs, Life Time owns and produces nearly 30 of the most iconic athletic events in the country. |
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Buying Bread or Paying for Your Medication? Public Drug Plans Must Cover Cost of Latest Depression Medications
OTTAWA, May 17, 2017 /CNW/ - Ron Campbell and Brianne Moore — on behalf of millions of other Canadians living with mental illness and depression — have a message for Minister of Health Jane Philpott following her address yesterday at The Economic Club of Canada. Their message is this: an effectively reformed system to review patented medications must include the many people who are currently shut out from getting the latest — and most effective — medications for their depression.
Ron and Brianne are referring to Canada's publicly funded drug plan system, which currently does not cover many of the latest innovative depression medications that Canadians need to treat their illness. Those medications are only available through private health plans.
Right now, Canada's most vulnerable, including veterans, seniors, single parents, Indigenous peoples, the unemployed and homeless people, are shut out. That's because publicly funded drug plans don't cover the cost of the latest innovative medicines designed to treat depression.
All these Canadians, say Ron and Brianne, are part of an untold story.
"It's a travesty," says Ron, a retired RCMP officer with both PTSD and major depressive disorder. He's one of the lucky ones because he has private drug plan coverage. After years of tweaking and crashing, more tweaking and crashing, his specialist found the right combination of medications that make it possible for him to cope — and live.
"I'm finally in the best place I've been in 13 years," says the man who twice came within a hair's breadth of ending his life, once with pistol in hand. "I don't know what I would have done if I didn't have private drug plan coverage."
Ron is concerned about all those others he sees who struggle to get through their day without the benefit of the medication that will work for them — or people like Brianne who sometimes forfeits the medication she needs when she can't afford it.
Brianne is only 19, but she has struggled with mental illness for virtually her entire life and has had to pay for her own medications for the last three years. Life's hard, but things would certainly be easier if her medication was covered under the public drug plan.
"You shouldn't have to choose between buying food or the medication you need to stay mentally healthy," she says. "Unfortunately, sometimes those are the only choices I have."
Ron and Brianne are members of the newly formed Canadians for Equitable Access to Depression Medications (CEADM). CEADM is calling on Minister Philpott to fix the system, ensuring that all Canadians living with mental illness, regardless of their income, have access to the latest medications for depression.
"Minister Philpott is correct to tackle the high price of patented medications, and we are pleased that she has also touched on the important issue of access, but her plan for reform does not go far enough," says Phil Upshall, a member of CEADM's National Leadership Team and National Executive Director of the Mood Disorders Society of Canada. "Yes, developing a common national formulary that reflects the 21st century's 'patient-centered care' philosophy is an important step in the right direction to improve affordability and accessibility. But Canada's inequitable public drug plan system, which leaves many people out in the cold, the hardest hit being the most vulnerable in society and those with no private benefit plan, must be fixed."
"We cannot afford to let an employment lottery dictate who can and who cannot access the medications that restore wellness, quality of life and full functionality that permits Canadians living with a mental illness to become productive members of Canadian society," he adds.
SOURCE Canadians for Equitable Access to Depression Medication
Singing the Holiday Blues?
Neuropsychologist Dr. Sanam Hafeez Offers Tips to Help Cope
It’s the most wonderful time of the year. But sadly, not for everyone. Whether it’s dealing with loss, getting over an addiction, being new in town, helping children post-divorce or caring for a senior citizen, Dr. Hafeez has suggestions to help make the holidays a bit easier to navigate.
For the newly divorced or widowed:
Loss is a sad, life-changing event at any time of the year. However, it tends to be harder when everyone around you is joyful and giddy with holiday cheer. “Don’t be so hard on yourself by trying to minimize your pain,” advises Dr. Hafeez. Allow yourself to grieve – it’s only natural. She also suggests reaching out to family and friends and joining a grief or support group. Surrounding yourself with loved ones or others going through the same experience will help you feel less lonely. To find a grief group in your area: http://www.griefshare.org/findagroup
Dr. Hafeez is an advocate for volunteering. Helping those less fortunate can give you a sense of love and pride, while immersing yourself in the true spirit of the holidays, in the hopes of lifting your own. Lastly, Dr. Hafeez says to “be good to yourself. Take a long bath, read a good book, get a massage. Do something that you love to do and makes you feel good. Neglecting yourself will only make you feel worse.”
For those who are new in town - A Meetup Group is a local community of people. A Meetup Group hosts Meetups, which are face to face meetings that happen in real life between members and organizers. They can range from anything from “a new in town” group to yoga groups, restaurant groups, you name it, there is a “meet up” for every hobby. On the Find a Meetup Group page, you'll be able to see the location, description, and topics of Meetup Groups. You can also browse individual Meetups within all the groups in your area. www.meetup.com
Seasonal Affect Disorder- A light box mimics outdoor light. Researchers believe this type of light causes a chemical change in the brain that lifts your mood and eases other symptoms of SAD. Most people use light boxes for a minimum of 30 minutes each morning.
You can buy a light box over the counter, or your doctor may recommend a specific light box. Light boxes, available from stores and Internet retailers, come in different shapes and sizes and have varied features. They also produce different types and intensities of light. Light boxes are designed to be safe and effective, but they aren't approved or regulated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA), so it's important to understand your options.
Depression? There’s an App for that. More people commit suicide during the holidays than at any other time of the year. Unfortunately for people who are under the care of a psychologist, it is very likely their treatment will be interrupted over the holidays due to vacationing doctors. Thankfully, there are many excellent apps for Android and Smart Phones. Some top apps are: Health Through Breath, Secret of Happiness, Depression CBT Self Help Guide, NIH Depression Info, and Fitness Builder.
For the caretaker of a senior citizen:
Don’t forget that elderly people tire easily and can be vulnerable to over-stimulation. “Limit the number of activities for these people and schedule time for a nap if you are traveling or take them home when they become exhausted,” says Dr. Hafeez. Offer to cook for them at your home or help to cook at theirs. While older people may no longer be self-sufficient in the kitchen, there is no reason why they can’t help. Dr. Hafeez says “including them in the meal preparation is a great way for them to feel involved in the holidays, without putting them in any danger.” And if you are gathering in a place that is unfamiliar, make sure to remove slippery throw rugs and other items that could present a problem to one who has balance problems or difficulty walking.
For the parent dealing with post-divorce children:
Dr. Hafeez suggests that, “one parent may just have to be the ‘bigger’ one and give in for the sake of the kids,” when there is a dispute taking place. Whether it’s over the holiday schedule or bedtime after a party, the kids feel the stress. Also, Dr. Hafeez advises to try to collaborate with your former spouse over presents, so there is no competition over who gives the best gifts. “And never undermine the other parent. If he or she says they aren’t allowed to have something, don’t buy it! Be an adult,” says Dr. Hafeez.
For the recovering alcoholic:
Recovering from addiction is hard. Period. But it’s harder when holiday festivities are filled with friends and family drinking everything from eggnog to champagne. “Be prepared for what you may face, before going to a party,” advises Dr. Hafeez. She suggests an answer like “I’m choosing not to drink today,” or “I’ve decided to be the designated driver,” should get people off your back.
Dr. Hafeez, also offers this advice if you are traveling over the holidays. “Traveling often takes you to places where drinking can be encouraged, such as airports, planes and hotel bars.” Prepare yourself ahead of time by reminding yourself over and over that these settings may make you uncomfortable, but you don’t have a drink to make yourself feel more comfortable. If you have to, make yourself a note in your phone and read it to yourself if you’re starting to feel vulnerable.
While this year may not be the happiest and easiest of holidays, remind yourself that next year will be better. “Looking forward, not back, is the best way to embrace the future on a positive note,” says Dr. Hafeez.
Sanam Hafeez Psy.D
New York State Licensed Neuropsychologist and School Psychologist
Dr. Sanam Hafeez is a New York City based Neuro-psychologist and School Psychologist. She is also the founder and director of Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. She is currently a teaching faculty member at Columbia University. Click here to see Dr. Hafeez on Dr.Oz: http://www.doctoroz.com/episode/do-smart-drugs-work-we-test-them-so-you-don-t-have?video_id=4518086514001
Dr. Hafeez graduated from Queens College, CUNY with a BA in psychology. She then went on to earn her Master of Science in Psychology at Hofstra University. Following that she stayed at Hofstra to receive her Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) She later completed her post-doctoral training in Neuropsychology and Developmental Pediatrics at Coney Island Hospital.
Dr. Hafeez’s provides neuropsychological educational and developmental evaluations in her practice. She also works with children and adults who suffer from post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), learning disabilities, autism, attention and memory problems, trauma and brain injury, abuse, childhood development and psychopathology (bipolar, schizophrenia, depression, anxiety, etc…) In addition, Dr. Hafeez serves as a medical expert and expert witness by providing full evaluations and witness testimony to law firms and courts.
Dr. Hafeez immigrated to the United States from Pakistan when she was twelve years old. She is fluent in English, Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi (Pakistani and Indian languages.) She resides in Queens, New York with her husband and twin boys.
Honors and Publications:
April 2013 Main Speaker at Learning Disabilities Awareness Conference, New York City at Baruch College, CUNY
“Evaluating and Accommodating Students with
Disabilities”
June 2008 Appointment to the New York City 18-B panel Assigned Counsel Plan
Appointed as a preferred and approved Neuropsychologist and Clinical Psychologist in the New York City Court System for low cost or pro bono criminal, civil and family law cases
January 2008 CUNY Proficiency Exam Waiver Position Paper
Hafeez, S. (2008)
Commissioned by CUNY to advocate for the Learning Disabled population and the bias of the CUNY Assessment.
Research based paper presented to the Board of CUNY Student Disabilities to waive requirement.
1998-2000 Doctoral Fellowship, Hofstra University
*Awarded a stipend in exchange for a research assistant position with core faculty member
Clinical Experience:
Director and Founder February 2003-Present
Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services
- Provide quality monolingual and bilingual psychological, educational, neuropsychological and speech and language evaluations
- Early Intervention, Pre-School and School Age Special Education Services
- Awarded a competitive contract through bidding with the New York City Department of Education (NYC DOE)
- Awarded an assessment and interpreting contract with Putnam-Westchester BOCES
- Provide evaluations and services to college level students with educational disabilities
- Also provide occupational and physical therapy evaluations as well as therapeutic services in all areas.
- Contract with school district and various agencies to provide evaluations and related services
- Provide neuropsychological, psychological and forensic evaluations for legal purposes to individuals, law firms, agencies and courts
Teaching Experience:
Faculty Appointment September 2011-Present
Columbia University, Teacher’s College, New York, NY
PhD program in Psychology
- Instruction of neuropsychological and cognitive testing measures (SB-5, WJ-III, WISC-IV, etc)
- Supervision and training of graduate students f
We talk openly about asthma & allergies. Giving same transparency to mental health issues will lift the crippling silence, says award-winning columnist, author, OCD & anxiety survivor
Last week, Harry Potter series star Devon Murray bravely opened up about his decade-long struggle with depression. But why did it take him so long?
Maggie Lamond Simone, author of Body Punishment -- who has struggled her entire life with OCD, anxiety and depression -- knows all too well that shame, the fear of stigma and a general lack of awareness about the signs and symptoms of mental illness keep a significant number of people from speaking up about their condition.
The silence, Maggie says, can cause utter devastation by perpetuating a culture of secrecy, causing shame to deepen, destroying self-esteem and alienating those affected. It can also prevent people from seeking the treatment and support they need.
The only way forward toward ending what NPR has called a silent epidemic, Maggie says, is to lift the taboo around calling mental illnesses by their name. Here’s how:
Identify the illness.
Mental illnesses come in all shapes and sizes, from depression and anxiety to OCD, eating disorders and addiction. Be intentional about identifying the specific condition you, a friend or a loved one is suffering from. This will help make the condition and its manifestations seem less mysterious and confusing, lifting a layer of stigma.
Get in the habit of calling each illness by its name.
When consistently referred to by its proper name, a mental health condition becomes merely an aspect of the individual suffering from it rather than a defining characteristic -- as with asthma or allergies. After all, just as nobody chooses to have asthma or is identified by it, nobody chooses to have -- or should be identified by -- OCD.
Be intentional in talking openly about mental illness.
Whether you struggle personally with a mental health condition or know somebody who does, be intentional in speaking about it openly. Again, think of how you’d speak of asthma. The condition itself won’t go away, but with a name and no shame it becomes just another aspect of whoever has it. It can be managed.
Finally, remember: speaking up will lead to a domino effect that will go a long way toward alleviating suffering and devastation.
Maggie would be happy to talk about this in more detail, and / or I’d be glad to send you a copy of her book. Let me know if you’re interested!
About Maggie Lamond Simone
Maggie Lamond Simone is an award-winning columnist and author. With two titles already to her name, her third book, Body Punishment: OCD, Addiction and Finding the Courage to Heal (Central Recovery Press) was released in April 2015. It traces Simone’s journey struggling with obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, and depression. Her writing has been featured in multiple publications and collections, including Cosmopolitan Magazine, The Zen of Midlife Mothering (2013), Not Your Mother’s Book on Do-It-Yourselfers (2013), P.S. What I Didn’t Say (2009), and Chicken Soup for the Soul: My Resolution (2008). Simone has been a guest on NPR and is a regular blog columnist for the Huffington Post. An an adjunct professor in the department of communications at SUNY Oswego and Onondaga Community College in Syracuse, she lives in Central New York with her husband and two children.
About Body Punishment
For as long as she can recall, Maggie Lamond Simone has been plagued by self-loathing and urges to harm herself physically while emotionally sabotaging her life. In Body Punishment: OCD, Addiction and Finding the Courage to Heal (Central Recovery Press, April 2015), she reveals it all. The obsessive thoughts that drove her to cut, starve, pick, drink, pluck, purge, and otherwise hurt herself. The profound shame, the utter despair and the confusion over her own inner workings that prevented her from establishing stable, long-term goals and healthy relationships. Through this poignant story of her painful, eye-opening journey she explores the issues of substance abuse, anxiety, and depression that commonly occur with OCD, all in an effort to further the dialogue around mental illness and eliminate the shame and help others find a way forward toward healing.